I posted this up on Facebook last night and the word started spreading.
Here are some issues which I'd like to clear, and some of my views on the GOOD POINTS of polytechnic.
1. I come from a biased point of view.
Almost every negative comment is telling me how I'm being so one-sided for the article I've written. That is very true, because my entire post was (1) based on my own personal experience and opinions, (2) basically ranting about the pain-points in my life as a polytechnic student, (3) coming from the Business Student point-of-view.
There was a comment which went like...
"Your points are too subjective, one-sided, and does not reflect accurately on the thoughts of all poly students."
I won't say that it's too subjective, because if it was, it wouldn't have garnered this huge response of students agreeing on what I said. Lots of people seem to have agreed from where I'm coming from.
But I do admit that, despite my title stating "The truth about life as a Polytechnic Student", it does not necessarily have to reflect EVERY SINGLE poly student out there. I mean, isn't it obvious? As similar as what these people are going through, it is pretty much common sense that we all come from different backgrounds and environments.
I didn't publish this comment though, because I didn't like this anonymous guy's tone. Lol.
2. I had ONE bad experience during my journey in polytechnic that really impacted me.
Out of all the good experiences that I had throughout my three years in poly, there are bound to be bad ones, and one of them that happened in the third year really got me thinking about how I felt about students these days.
Let me give you a scenario which happened to me:
"A good friend of yours (lets name this person "A") had always been a supportive individual and someone you feel you can depend on to cheer you up at times when you needed a listening ear. However, when you enter the same project group as "A", you found out that "A" had mentioned to someone else about being unhappy having to group with you. Sounds childish and so 'old school', but it's true.
Weeks later, you got the courage to ask "A" about the situation and awkwardly cleared things up. Everything seemed fine for a week or two. You started improving on making an effort to have a better attitude towards school and being more punctual because of the motivation you got. During group meetings, there are smiles and laughter and no more bad feelings. (at least you thought so)
Just when you thought things got better, peer evaluation came. The next moment you know, you got marked down for your attendance/attitude/contribution. A week later, you talked it out among your group mates, but ever since then, you can't bring yourself to trust them anymore."
I know this might not sound familiar to you because it is MY PERSONAL experience, but I hope to emphasize on the fact that,
(1) I really dislike it when people put a fake front in front of you.
(2) Especially when they know that you're trying your best to improve for the better and change your stupid habit of being late.
(3) Peer evaluation also does not have much of an impact on me because I'm not AS concerned of my grades than the others, but a group mate or friend lying to me about everything being okay, and marking me down behind my back while pretending to be a team, is NOT okay. (personal take)
That being said, it's great to know that some of you have the perfect team mates and grow up in the perfect educational environment. I admire you to the max. But please don't forget that not everyone is as fortunate as you. My thoughts might be biased, but the same goes to you. To each his/her own opinion.
3. Bad experiences do not have anything to do with the school I'm in.
It's more of an issue with the people you meet nowadays. I'm also not the typical studious type of student, and I have myself partly at blame for occasional bad grades. But when you talk about my lecturers and course of study, they are perfectly fine.
I might have stated my views on how I felt about lectures, too, but most of my lecturers are the best people with the funniest characters and such lovely personalities. They were the ones who were there to motivate me continuously and even listen to some of my complaints. The ones who help me clear my doubts when I needed their help for consultation.
I might have stated my views on how I felt about lectures, too, but most of my lecturers are the best people with the funniest characters and such lovely personalities. They were the ones who were there to motivate me continuously and even listen to some of my complaints. The ones who help me clear my doubts when I needed their help for consultation.
A reader from NYP also gave some thoughts of his/hers.
Although I still dislike lectures, I totally agree with what he/she said. That's a different point of view for you guys.
4. I absolutely LOVE the fun aspects of polytechnic!
Camps, events, bazaars, outings... The list goes on! As much as I'm a poor example of a good model student, my past two years of polytechnic life had its perks too. With a bunch of fun loving people, we organized the Freshmen Orientation Camp and Programme for our incoming batch of juniors. It was hella fun and I got to know lots of new people!
Aside from that, some of my course mates and I were also part of the Organizing Committee for our course. It wasn't exactly a smooth journey, but there were fun times through the events we planned such as the Christmas Parties and Course Outings! You don't know how much fun I had aside from studies.
I assumed that my previous article was an obvious, one-sided personal opinion from the negative aspect. Looks like some of you didn't think so, so here you go.
5. I'm still grateful for the things I've learnt, nice people I've known and knowledge I've gained.
Maybe I sounded a little too emotional in the previous article because I had it written with lots of emotions and deep thoughts put into it. But I'm going to now state it VERY clearly that, apart from the bad, there is so much good exposure gained and nice people I've gotten to know. I even met my boyfriend there and some of my best pals, even through simple activities such as Orientation Camps.
Also, I don't find the education system wrong. How many times do I have to say that it's based on my own experiences and opinions?
So why are people telling me things like,
"You, lady, are in for a rude shock if you think having this attitude of yours is going to take you far in the future. Believe me, no employer will appreciate such cynicism, lack of respect." - Anonymous
Don't you think you're going a little overboard? I'm not intending to work in a company that I don't interest in, and neither would these employers hire someone like me. But what I can tell you is that, there are really nice and accepting people out there who understand your strengths and weaknesses and know how to utilize them to the fullest. They might be rare in the society, but there ARE these people out there. You just don't know them.
Who are you to lecture me about my attitude with an attitude like yours? Lol. Fancy trying to be all "opinionated" as an anonymous without a status or position. Try harder.
Or even telling me to quit school,
"Very immature piece of writing. Not trolling or anything but you need to think about the bigger picture. Not happy with the "mundane" process of school? Quit then. I was once like you in poly and I regret to this day. Do yourself a favour and take your studies seriously - one thing I wished I did at your age." - Anonymous
"Quit then" - Lol, say until very easy leh you. Once again, I've ENDED my three years of studies in polytechnic so I don't know what there is to "quit". Whatever happened to your past, I don't care. All I know is you're rude, mean and a no-guts anonymous.
Here are other bad responses I've gotten:
(different responses from different anonymous people)
You guys really know how to ruin a person's day, don't you?
Now that I've read enough of these comments, I'm really glad that majority of you can relate to it. =)
Although the intention was writing it just to express my thoughts as an ordinary schoolgirl from poly, I'm really thankful for the kind comments and constructive feedback.
And to all of you nice people, I wish all the best for your studies and good luck! Like I said, there are still some really nice people out there, you just have to get to know or meet them. =)
Let me know if you still have any doubts, but I hope this had cleared out some misconceptions on life in polytechnic. Different people, different environments, different experiences, different cultures. It all depends on which path you've chosen.
Let me know if you still have any doubts, but I hope this had cleared out some misconceptions on life in polytechnic. Different people, different environments, different experiences, different cultures. It all depends on which path you've chosen.
As for the haters, stop posting these rude remarks and go study. Must guai, okay?
P/S. (Made My Polytechnic Survival Guide for those who requested! Check it out!)

22 comments:
"Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind" There are no right or wrong because it's your own opinion. Keep it up
Hi. I've read your earlier post , and all I can do now is agree with Daniel. You don't have to care about haters , you might want to deal with constructive feedback or accept positive comments , but heck , you don't have to care at all. I mean , it's your blog , you're writing a personal article , not an essay or a report in which you're being paid for.
tl;dr It can be as biased as it wants , its your damn blog
Few notes just coming from me(JC Student)
1) I think we can completely generalise the majority of the Singapore Education System(or Singaporeans for that matter) just from your posts which makes complete sense. People who disagree are just living in self-denial.
a) Fake People
b) Backstabbers
c) Goal-oriented(academic-oriented) "friends"
I guess the 3 even overlap sometimes , its just the way our society has progressed downhill till we(not saying all Asians/Singaporeans)have reached this stage.
I myself hate school at this stage , for precisely the same reasons as you have stated in your previous post.
The education system really ought to undergo some reformation or else it will just get worse.
tl;dr Education system sucks , Singaporeans have no future.
We treat humans like things, and we treat things like humans- which is the general reality and you are clear about it. Keep it up!
Felt most of it when I was in poly. just be around to connect with the good peeps!
Not trying to add hatred or anything else, but in the working world, every negative aspects u stated in poly are 10x worse. I totally utd all that complains n rants, but, you probably need to grow up. Interns btw, are not entirely being a working adult. & oh, fake people are everywhr, dont wry abt them. Just take ur time and mature. (:
Impressive article and i believe "different age" group reading it draws positive, negative & constructive comments...i can understand the comments from anonymous and i don't think he has any intention to be harsh but direct. This is a complicated world that we live in and it's not perfect. Even if the world is perfect, we are only human...
"Different people, different environments, different experiences, different cultures. It all depends on which path you've chosen..."
There's always 2 sides (or more) to one thing. Good to keep discussions balanced.
As much as I believe a lot of companies take intern as cheap labour and they always let you do the easiest thing in the company aka saikang. there are a lot more things that you don't experience when you're an intern, like the backstabbing part among the colleague, bootlicking the boss, all of this disgusting things that you feel will soon become something that you just will shrug it off your shoulder because its so common, so I hope you don't take it too hard about being betrayed, you just really have to learn to handle it.
I can strongly relate to your previous article, because I'm exactly the same as you, self declare holiday, being look down by my coursemate, hearing comments like "I don't want to group with her" from another friend when you treated those people as one of your better friends in poly. But I hope all this gonna motivate you more to do well for your internship, so you can slap them in the face and let them know, if you want to do it, you can too. Its not like you do it for the grades, but you do it to prove something to those people who think they are so smart in school but when they go to internship they are just..... cui. (some people just don't have the EQ)
I graduated poly without contacting any of my friends after that because you don't need this type of people in your life I believe. There's so much more to deal with as we grow up. So hereby, I wish you all the best for your internship.
Hi,
Can I ask for your permission to reproduce both parts of your personal thoughts of being a poly student on our education portal www.domainofexperts.com ? We shall cite Miss Teng Cheow Yi as the author, and make explicit mention that the posts first appeared on your website. Hoping to hear from you soon! :)
Hi,
Not sure if what I gonna comment would mean anything but well.. I may not experience as much as you but yes. I agree to your post abt being backstab. Dont worry for you wont be the worse. I believe many poly students feels the same as u! Thanks for this post for ive graduated last year but it do bring back some good and bad memories!
Haters gonna hate and so, ignore negative comments for you wont stoop yourself to their level. ;)
Lastly, have fun with your internship! I do hope you get like really great bosses during interns! Enjoy the joyous moments before you officially hit the corporate world where more backstabbing/fake people appears.
Meanwhile, just keep in contact with a few frienss you made in poly that arnt fake (which I hope there are some!) For I have forsake a group of self-centered people and have gained more trust worthy friend that I am still contacting for now despite I graduated last year!
- from a young adult that gone through a long phase of school life and am still pursuing my studies im uni. :)
Haha, I have the same thoughts as you for the "when they go for internship they are just.... cui" part! There's this saying that some people 做事,不会做人. Thank you for sharing this with me, and all the best to you too!
Thank you so much for your kind comments and well wishes! There are definitely good and bad memories. And yes, there are still a few poly friends of mine who are genuinely nice and I hope I'd keep in touch with them in the future, too. All the best in Uni!
As long as it does not include mean comments on your thoughts relating to my articles, go ahead :-)
As a polytechnic student, I agree with pretty much a lot of the things said! And it's kinda lame that you're getting negative feedback mainly because you're writing your own blog post encapsulating your own opinions.
So yeah, rock on and good luck for internship!
I read your post and I must say I agree with you. btw I am from TP(dip it)
Hi. I totally understood how you felt. I was a year 3 student when I dropped out because of lack of interest/backstabbers/lack of participation marks/lecturers hates me.....
And as much as I don't regret my lacking of interest in winning their attention , it didn't help me when I was trying to appeal for leniency and you know, don't drop me out from school on my last year. Went on w my NS and it taught me quite a thing or two about life and it's unfairness.
All I wanna say here is, sincere people like you are really hard to come by and I hope the pressure of the world wouldn't change you to what I call one of "those" people. Yes these people will be at the top of the food chain, bosses likes them, they continue to bring down people so they'd be at the top but hey , nice people finish somewhere too ; eventually. (:
I can relate to your story about being graded down. I felt that I have done well for my group project and I did attend every single project meeting, but in the end my groupmate still marked me down. And I'm only in my first year and first semester. This kind of sucks.
Hi. I really agree with what you have written that "It's more of an issue with the people you meet nowadays." My life as a JC student is somewhat as bad as yours because of these selfish individuals that I have met. It's really unfortunate to have bumped into them. They have made our life so miserable. Glad that everything is kind of over for you. Hope you would meet nice people in the future! :)
Hi, may I know if internship is part of the requirement for your graduation? If so, have u started ur internship?
Hey! Yep. For my case, if I don't complete my ITP course, I won't be able to graduate. I'm starting my 15 weeks ITP in two months time. Having my holidays now!
I believe that u have been assigned your company right? Good luck with your internship and show them that grades isn't everything! Most of the time, life experience plays a larger role in someone's success!
Still in the midst of interviews, but it's nice to know that I'm not the only one who feels this way. Thank you =)
Hey guys! I agree with most of the points here. Noticed that my classmates have been using each other to achieve their own goal and they never really became good friend. Oh and good luck for the interviews, internship can be both fun and hellish at the same time. You really learn life experiences that you can't find in poly. My experience was pretty much mixed, I was working at a location where most projects prospect are not very 'interesting' to help out our grade. We were working with a project that is most likely to fail in the end, a paper proposal that never jump-start a program for the company. Well.....
Failed we have....C for the FYP. We were pretty powerless to do anything to save our self and the supervisor from our poly was an asshole. He hardly came to visit to assist and guide us in the project.He only came by when we are nearing the project dateline. Our company supervisor was really helpful to direct our in the project but it doesn't interest any of our lecturer in our course.
Well, it hurts like hell to know you are destined to fail...I really wish there was something we can do...
I have already graduated from poly and I got a place in NTU...So it not so bad in the end...
I do kinda feel empty when leaving poly....
~dasa
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